tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8137291688076873480.post8342257081937497314..comments2023-04-04T01:11:40.639-07:00Comments on AmpsterTango: Lead & follow in tango is not "black and white"AmpsterTangohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07128341367227617647noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8137291688076873480.post-9703465831780935082010-05-04T00:51:51.566-07:002010-05-04T00:51:51.566-07:00@ Felicia: There was a time when I lead by force. ...@ Felicia: There was a time when I lead by force. I felt that I (and my follow) was not getting the most out of the experience.<br /><br />One day, I decided to put myself in the shoes of my followers and take their feelings into consideration over myself. Realizing that, the dynamic interaction of lead and follow started happening. Things seemed to happen smoother and much better.<br /><br />It was not an easy transition for myself. I had to swallow my pride and tamp down my hubris. It seemed to make all the difference and opened a lot more opportunities I didn't even realize could be possible.AmpsterTangohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07128341367227617647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8137291688076873480.post-2346639141942559822010-05-03T23:58:35.557-07:002010-05-03T23:58:35.557-07:00If only I could get my partner to read and accept ...If only I could get my partner to read and accept the fact that forced leading is not working for me. :( <br /><br />You have written my thoughts. Good article. :)My Sweet Haremhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02757821716215627136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8137291688076873480.post-59953064917571634652009-11-25T21:53:17.414-08:002009-11-25T21:53:17.414-08:00@HOA—Glad to be of service :-)@HOA—Glad to be of service :-)AmpsterTangohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07128341367227617647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8137291688076873480.post-29366240126121159542009-11-21T20:18:20.248-08:002009-11-21T20:18:20.248-08:00Thanks Ampster - your article seems to have healin...Thanks Ampster - your article seems to have healing effect to one of my most painful experience of tango.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070683959103469757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8137291688076873480.post-72590137512735352082009-11-02T08:50:31.991-08:002009-11-02T08:50:31.991-08:00Ampster - I love this! This gets to the heart of s...Ampster - I love this! This gets to the heart of so many discussions on Tango-L, Dance-Forums and blogs. Beautifully written.Marihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08960763038363579526noreply@blogger.com